This morning we talked about the importance of being “dad.” I shared the following stats on the air and several people requested I post the info so that they too could share it. So here you go, men. Happy Father’s Day. You’re very important to someone.
63% of teen suicides come from fatherless homes. That’s 5 times the national average.
SOURCE: U.S. Dept of Health
90% of all runaways and homeless children are from fatherless homes. That’s 32 times the national average.
80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes. 14 times the national average.
SOURCE: Justice and Behavior
85% of children with behavioral problems come from fatherless homes. 20 times the national average.
SOURCE: Center for Disease Control
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. 9 times the national average.
SOURCE: National Principals Association Report
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes. 10 times the national average.
SOURCE: Rainbow’s for all God’s Children
85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes. 20 times the national average.
SOURCE: U.S. Dept. of Justice
Daughters of single parents without a Father involved are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 711% more likely to have children as teenagers, 164% more likely to have a pre-marital birth and 92% more likely to get divorced themselves.
Researchers of Columbia University found that children living in two-parent households with a poor relationship with their father are 68% more likely to smoke, drink or use drugs compared to all teens in two-parent households. Moreover, teens in single-mother households fared much worse. They had a 30% higher risk than those in all two-parent households.
“Without two parents, working together as a team, the child has more difficulty learning the combination of empathy, reciprocity, fairness and self-command that people ordinarily take for granted. If the child does not learn this at home, society will have to manage his behavior in some other way. He may have to be rehabilitated, incarcerated, or otherwise restrained. In this case, prisons will substitute for parents.”
SOURCE: Morse, Jennifer Roback. “Parents or Prisons.” Policy Review, 2003
Children with Fathers who are involved are 40% less likely to repeat a grade in school.
SOURCE: National Household Education Survey
Children with Fathers who are involved are 70% less likely to drop out of school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to get A’s in school.
Children with Fathers who are involved are more likely to enjoy school and engage in extracurricular activities.
Even in high crime neighborhoods, 90% of children from stable 2 parent homes where the Father is involved do not become delinquents.
SOURCE: Development and Psychopathology 1993
Adolescent girls raised in a 2 parent home with involved Fathers are significantly less likely to be sexually active than girls raised without involved Fathers.
Oh c’mon lets just keep encouraging quickie divorce…let’s even create a show about it…we’ll call it “Happily Divorced”. We can celebrate single moms and chuckle about dead beat dads. And lastly we can continue to glorify sex outside marriage while we once a year lament the problem of fatherless children….
Sounds like every commercial on the Howard Stern show.
amen.
amen…i agree.
This article is supergay.
7 years he’s been gone and didn’t realize how much I miss him! Love ya Dad!
I’m one of the people requesting this, so THANK – YOU, GORDON, for posting this for us…great info, well worth passing along.
89% of girls raised without a father become strippers
24% of those girls are actually good at it
98% of those girls get boob jobs
64% of those girls are easy
12% of those girls become porn stars
SOURCE: NSBI – National Strip Bar Institute
More proof:
Wow, dude. Thanks.
Excellent, Gordo! As a man who grew up fatherless, I didn’t realize how I had been impacted till I was in my mid-30′s. Now one of my primary goals in life is to make sure my kids don’t end up shortchanged like I was.
A cool thing about knowing the stats you provide above is that such knowledge enables us to make a difference in the lives of those kids with absent fathers. You are a big supporter of Big Brothers/Big Sisters. Another great one is the Mentoring Project: http://www.thingsnottosaytosomeonewhohascancer.com/?p=3
wrong link. Here’s the right one: http://thementoringproject.org/about/
Don’t bother telling N.O.W. as I think that they believe Fathers are unnecessary and statistics are only useful when properly manipulated.
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interesting. thanks for posting
Thanks Gordon, I missed the conversation this morning so I appreciate you posting this. When I think I failed my sons miserably, I’ll pull this out and read it. Since my wife and I are lucky enough to have kids who managed to stay away from trouble I guess being involved in their lives did make at least a bit of a difference.
Thanks Gordon. Makes a dad feel worthy
I’m a stay at home dad. Have been for 15 years. Been a P1 the whole time. Stay at home dad’s don’t have big networks of friends to lean on…that would be gay. What’s not Gordon, is thanking you and the rest of the boys on air for getting me to laugh again after watching my son die a few years ago. Cancer sucks.
Stay hard all you dad’s out there, working, retired, or stay home.
My condolences on the death of your son. I’m glad you let us be a part of your healing from that seemingly impossible grief.
Show me a kid who’s dad isn’t involved with them. And more than likely there’s a piece of shit mother who’s used the kid as a tool against the dad and made the kid hate the dad with lies
Effing whores… I haven’t seen my kid in over a year
MC
Just because your baby-mama is a ‘piece of shit mother’ & apparenly an ‘effing whore’, doesn’t mean all single Mothers are in that same category. Don’t judge them all by your experience. Maybe their baby-dads are soldiers killed in battle, maybe they were junkies, maybe they were thieves….the reasons for single motherhood are endless.
Thanks for posting that man- good info
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Thank you for this…my family has dedicated decades to reaching and training men to be better fathers. This is and will continue to be one of the biggest issues in our world!
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As a single mother from the time my child was 16 months old, these statistics make me feel good that I did a helluva solo job with my son. He is intelligent, well-balanced, loving, loved by everyone, and is a paramedic–dedicating his life to saving others’. He is all of this in spite of a father who moved 1500 miles away to work in the church as a youth minister (yes, I know the irony), and who called twice a year–to ask what he wanted for his birthday and Christmas. When my son traveled with his grandparents to see his father, his father barely made time for him. My son definitely grew up without a father. However, my brothers and his grandfathers did their best to step in as male role models. That said, I was his mother AND his father, even joining the dads’ club at his school. Was this easy? No. It was a 24/7 role, including bundling him up for 3am runs to the emergency pharmacy when either one of us was sick–no, the second parent was not there to stay at home with him. Life was not easy raising a child as a single parent, but it is the best thing I’ve ever done, and by far the most rewarding. I didn’t miss out on a single soccer game, school performance, anything. His father missed it all–by his own choice. It is a huge loss for him that he is only beginning to realize, and likely will never realize to the full extent.
So to MC, we’re not all “effing whores” or “piece of shit mother(s)”. Both parents have to be mature and have the child’s best interest at heart, including you if you don’t want to miss more of your child’s life–you can’t get that back. Blame it elsewhere if you need to, but don’t call me names. My son’s father made a choice, a conscious decision, to run away from responsibility and start a new life for himself. That doesn’t make ME a lesser person.
Yay, good for you & congrats on raising a good son who is a productive member of society… and not just another Dadless kid who slipped through the cracks. I’m sure it was hard, fbut it’s paid off, and you have every right to be proud!
Just spent father day weekend with my dad. He’s getting up there now, and I’m starting to realize that he won’t be around forever. I took the time to listen to every word that he said, and soaked it in. I will miss him when he’s gone, which I hope is a long time from now. I do know that I have achieved success and failure by emulating him (way more success than failure).
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Whatever. I didn’t have a dad growing up and I became the greatest and most powerful assassin in history. Explain THAT!
Great Post Gordo, but I wonder where that first stat came from. 5 times the national average? That would mean 12% of teens commit suicide. Maybe 15, or even 50 times the national average. Sorry to nitpick, but I was just confused by that one.
http://www.sermonspice.com/product/47882/fatherless-moving-past-the-pain-of-an-absent-or-imperfect-parent
The photo reminds mr of when my father would say, “Hey, pull my finger.”
So I am embarrassed to say I used to be one of these hardcore, man hating feminists who thought men were useless and fathers unnecessary. Through much reading and reflecting on my own life, I realized how dangerously wrong I was. I now try my best to educate others on the importance of fathers.
SG….